The woman who tends to avoid her finances was often the little girl who felt . . .

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The video connects a common psychological pattern (avoidance of finances due to past experiences) with a relatable internal conflict, offering a hopeful message of growth and empowerment. The creator's personal experience and empathetic tone likely resonated with viewers.

Summary

The video discusses how women who avoid their finances may have learned to perform well externally while hiding their inner world due to feeling unsafe to share. This pattern can lead to a split between survival and visibility, with money issues being a manifestation of this internal conflict.

Structure

1The woman who avoids finances
2Learned to perform externally
3Inner world felt unsafe
4Pressure to appear capable
5Money as a manifestation of conflict
6The invitation for healing and growth

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The woman who tends to avoid her finances was often the little girl who felt . . . Hi, I'm Tammy Therapist Former financial advisor Money pattern consultant

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As an over achiever myself, high functioning avoidance was really tricky for me to spot. Mainly because I felt something was wrong with my inner world. Turns out, that wasn’t the case. I needed to un-learn hiding and dismissing my inner world, and re-learn trusting others, who were safe, with it. Raise your hand if you’ve experienced something like this, too 🙌🏼🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🖐🏿 #midlifereset #moneytoks #tiktoktherapy #tiktokmoney #womenover40

Transcript

the woman who looks like she has it all together but avoids her finances was often the little girl who felt . . . who Learned how to perform well on the outside but she felt like her inner world wasn't safe to share she felt pressured to be capable mature or easy she felt unseen in what she was quietly carrying all by herself and she Learned that appearing OK mattered more than actually feeling OK if this is you you're not inconsistent you're split between survival and visibility and money is where that shows up the good news is that that is an invitation your body's letting you know something's ready to be healed changed why people ask me all the time why does this even matter isn't ignorance bliss perhaps but there's a cost either way the freedom on the other side of that growth and change and personal development it's infectious it's empowering it's bold and it redefines financial freedom for you and women everywhere I don't know about you but I sure believe that you're worth it