if someone constantly

if someone constantly initiates a breakup or says, let's break up, you have an this is what this is their trauma response. they don't actually wanna break up, but they're saying, feel trapped or stuck in that that feeling, or isolate themselves. they also carry this huge shame, believe they're unlovable deep down inside. and what our subconscious likes to do is confirm our beliefs. end up doing to confirm their up pushing other people away to prove; yep, unlovable. and when you shame within yourself. believe that there's something wrong with or you're defective somehow. and in order carry the shame wound at the what people tend they deflect or lie or try to hide parts because they don't wanna face those parts of themselves painful. and how this manifests in relationships is constantly initiating breakups because they're scared. they're scared you're gonna believe that they're truly unlovable, that they're defective, wrong with them. it's because if that, you'll eventually leave. that pain, they push you to leave first. if this hits you, follow me