Okay, your mom talks way too much. What the fuck? Hello. Hi. Good. How are you? Good. I just wanted your perspective on something. Listen, I was talking to them. of things. And, I mean, I'm just gonna come out and say it. I don't think they're the right match for each other. I think they're both lovely people. Both lovely people. I think they're both lovely people. I think they're beautiful people. I think, you know, besides a little bit of opinions on some things, I think they're mostly good people. Yeah. Mostly good. Yeah. I think they're good people. Mostly. And, yeah. They'd have an okay marriage. With resentment. Building resentment on his side because he wants to get more, he wants to hang out with his friends more. He's satisfied in his job. He wants to just chill and coast in life. That's fine if you do that independently. She wants to be trad wife, stay at home, you know, make some kids and I have him support and him be more ambitious, which he's not gonna be. And that's okay for her to want that as well. That's not a bad thing. Right. Unfortunately, both of their lives do not align. And they're rushing into something because one, they live together. That's hard to break off. They've been together for a while. So they have sunk cost as three. They do love part is genuine. It's hard for kind of an which, luckily and unfortunately, if they are, early 20s is the time to make that choice. I want your perspective. So, to be honest, I think that I've kind of talked them about, like, everything you said, I've kind of said as well. Like I've seen improvement in their relationship and their communication and everything. But ultimately, I do think that they love each other. Yes. Yeah. But I do have different goals. I think that they, you know, he was raised versus the way she was raised was pretty different. I think I on her in life to be motivated to just want more. That I don't think he wants more, but I think that ultimately, I've lived through that with resentment, you know, being in relationships with and it's not good. And so it is a big fear of mine, a huge fear of mine. I've even made jokes that if this is kind of mean, but, like, if they end up getting divorced, to pay me back for the wedding. Joking. But it's just kind of. It is scary for for me to see that they don't necessarily have that same outlook on what they want their life to be like or a marriage to be. Well, the resentment's already there. How bad is in 20 years? Yeah, that's scary. Um, that doesn't I have talked to her about that. Talked to her about this and him, like. You can't force what you want. And it doesn't make someone bad just cause they have the same type as you and I. And I don't wanna like hurt feelings or anything by. I know, being bold with my statements, but I have told. I think that she will weight of the relationship. Yes, and he she is already. And he will resent her even more. For me, of he's a very nice. He is and like, him a good relationship. bad guy. So I. I do not see that side of him resenting her outwardly to me, you know what I mean? On the inside. He doesn't show that to me much, but I mean, I'm smart. And I can read people really well. But it doesn't matter if he doesn't show me. I already know it's there. I've already seen it in just life has panned out so far. And I know for. I know for her. Like your mom. Yeah, you're tough. So when she hears you say. You say that, pulling the relationship and everything. She might press her off. Cause she's your mom. Everyone gets preached to by their mom. Yeah, exactly. But I wanna tell her, but I wanna tell her now. She's not just saying that as mom. And it's hard. I get it. And other people in my family. I have 12 siblings, okay? Your mom talks way too much. What the fuck?
