The update! ✨

Hey guys, I'm back. I've got some dinner and I've got some Ribena. The fact that I'm eating dinner right now is all that you need to know. To be honest. So today went okay. I arrived on time and he was already sat down, looking at his photos, same haircut, same height as I imagined. He was a short king, which I like. It took a little bit to get started, and then we got started. It was pretty good. Like we laughed, we joked, we had a good time. He paid for all the drinks, which was really nice. Even though I did offer. You should always offer. I just think we have both very different lives. Like he lives on a boat. I don't know if living on a boat is for me. I feel like we did vibe. So it wasn't a complete bad time. I enjoyed myself and I feel like he enjoyed himself too. Turns out he wasn't French. He was just learning French. But I just did not feel the spark. He seemed quite introverted and I'm quite extroverted. So I want to date somebody who is also extroverted. But maybe that's just me. My slight problemo though is that we exchanged numbers at the end of the date. And I don't really want to go on a second date with him. I just did it because I didn't want to be awkward. I don't want to be rude. That's the last thing I want to do. I don't want to hurt people's feelings. So now I've got to figure out how to get out of this situation. I'm gonna message him in the morning because it's too late now. And just be like, hey, I had a really lovely time. But I don't really see us going any further. Because I think honestly, it's always the best policy. And even after three dates, I've already learned so much about dates and how they should go, sort of feel the vibe or not. And I think what's so interesting about this one in particular, because I quite fancied him from his photos. But when I met him in real life, I didn't really fancy him. Whereas a date I had previously, I fancied him on the date. That was the best meal of my life. That date didn't actually cause a spark. It definitely wasn't a wasted evening. I had a good time. I hope he had a good time. But unfortunately, it's not gonna be the one. Wish him all the best though. But unfortunately, it's not gonna be the one. Wish him all the best though.