Leaving a relationship doesn't break you, staying does.

The reason some people bounce back so fast after a breakup is because they already mourn their relationship while they in it that nobody prepares you. See, everybody thinks starts when you leave. Of times, years before relationship. Every night, next to somebody and still feel alone. You mourn it every time you hope they'll change and they don't. So by the time you finally walk out that door, there is nothing left to cry about because you've been crying the entire time. That's why some people leave. Expects them to fall apart, but they've already healed. They didn't grieve in real. And here's what nobody's saying. Some of y'all are still in now mourning our relationship that's technically still alive. That's not crazy. That's your spirit telling you it's already over. So don't be surprised when you finally feel relief instead of heartbreak. You already did the hard part. You leave the person who was standing right in front of you. That's not weakness. That's you being everybody else caught up.