I didn't love too hard. I just didn't know these 3 rules. (And it nearly cost me my life)

Number one, never tell a man how much you make. Number two, be mindful of what you're saying that you want in a relationship because a toxic person will become that. Number three, the first sign of disrespect, you need to leave. Because once someone's disrespecting you, that respect earned. And so of times we stay, say again, go down this rabbit hole of we keep wanting the person to change versus us removing ourselves from a situation where being respected. Mhm. And so I kept complaining about the same things over and over for years waiting to change versus girl, you just remove yourself for someone change your own situation.