Wanna know a disgusting secret to make a man text you more?

@techwki

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The video likely performed well due to its provocative title and relatable topic of relationship communication. The creator's personal anecdote and admission of the tactic's 'toxic' nature may have also increased engagement by sparking curiosity and discussion.

Summary

The creator shares a relationship tip called "guard lower" which involves being unpredictable in communication. The strategy suggests alternating between showering a partner with compliments and responding dryly to their exciting news to create an "open loop" in their brain, making them think about texting you more.

Structure

1Introduce the "disgusting secret" for making men text more.
2Explain the "guard lower" technique: be unpredictable.
3Give examples of alternating between compliments and dry responses.
4Describe how this creates an "open loop" in their brain.
5Share a personal anecdote about using this with a past boyfriend.
6Conclude that while toxic, the method works.

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Wanna know a disgusting secret to make a man text you more?

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Let me know how it goes 👀 #relationshipgoals #relationships #therapytok #tipspart1

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Transcript

Wanna know a disgusting secret to make a man text you more? So I want you to listen to this and use it ethically if you are gonna use it at all. Listen to this entire thing and say, I am gonna use this or I'm not gonna use this. Just make a decision today. The trick is called guard lower. This is just a fancy way of saying that you cannot be predictable. Some days you want to shower them with compliments and on the other days when they're talking about something exciting, text them super dry and short. This kind of like forces an open loop in their brain that makes it harder for them to not think of texting you. And I know that this sounds stupid, but I actually figured this out when I was first texting my first boyfriend. Some days he was like super moody and other days it was so wacky and sent me those stupid brain rot AI videos. Then again, he went to being moody. Then again, he sent me those videos. I started doing that and when he didn't respond, it made me want to text him even more. It created an open loop in my head to keep on texting him. I know that it's a little bit toxic, but it literally works.