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if someone confides in you, that's never your business to tell others.. that's loose lip behavior

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The video likely resonated due to its relatable advice on confidentiality and healthy boundaries in relationships, presented in a direct and emphatic manner. The use of clear on-screen text and a conversational tone makes the message easily digestible and shareable.

Summary

The speaker emphasizes the importance of confidentiality, stating that information shared in confidence should not be revealed to others, regardless of the relationship. This principle applies to friends, family, and romantic partners, with the exception of situations involving immediate danger.

Structure

1Confidentiality is key for friends and those who confide in you.
2Information shared is between the confider and the confidant.
3Loose lip behavior is unacceptable, even among friends or family.
4Situational exceptions exist, like imminent danger.
5This principle extends to romantic relationships.

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if someone confides in you, that's never your business to tell others.. that's loose lip behavior One thing about me, when it comes to my friends, or anyone that confides in me, for that matter, if you tell me something, I'm not going telling anybody else. Even if we both know them or you don't know them. Anything you're telling me is between us. And when you are ready to tell them, you will. That's it. I don't care if we're all friends. I don't care if we have a group chat together. I don't care if. Oh, they wouldn't mind. It's not that big of a deal. They're gonna tell them anyway. That's not my business to tell. When you are ready, you will tell them. Simple. That's what I call loose lip behaviour. That's it. Same thing can apply for families, siblings. Just because one sibling tell you something doesn't mean that you're obligated to tell all the other sibling. Like, you know, and obviously it's situational, if someone's life is in danger or something, whatever. But for the most part, especially if someone's confiding, sharing a vulnerable moment, or, whatever the case is, that's not your business to tell anybody else unless they did so themselves. When they are ready to, they will. Same thing goes with relationships. You should not be pillow talking to your partner about your friend's business. That's loose lip behaviour. That's bad for business.