My mom's an Aries. It is what it is, no joke. Direct, straightforward, assertive. Always told me when I was younger, you're being timid. Speak up for yourself. You're being timid. Stop overthinking. You're being timid. Go out there and hold your head up and make something out yourself. You're being timid. You don't need friends. You don't need money. Go out there and let them know who you are. You'll start attracting things. But my mom always told me, as an Aries woman. If a person does not like you revealing their issues, their issues, that means that person has problems. They have to be insecure. They have to not be feeling right. They may not be wrapped too tight. That means they may not be authentic. As long as it's not being brought to light, some of these signs may want things to appear to look righteous. And then these signs may not be righteous. They're upset. They start telling you, you're jealous. No, you're projecting. No, you just want to be us. No, no, no. None of that. But you bring the Aries issues up. Aries can say, hey, I'm aggressive sometimes. Hey, I promise you, you all of that and didn't do it because you moved slow, babe. It is what it is. Hey, I ain't gonna change. Hey, I'm just gonna do this now. Aries can just be authentic, be themselves and promise you something and may not do that for whatever reason. They didn't do what they said they was gonna do. So then you may tell Aries, you're not genuine. And they may say, I guess I'm not. I'm working on myself. Now they become genuine because they admitted to not being like that. So now we're getting to a realistic individual. So anyone else may just get more quiet. Allow you to think that this relationship, this relationship is prosperous because the person actions are still consistent. They're full of humor. They're full of joy. So you feel like things are being worked out. But then you realize that person leaves you. They fire you. Or maybe you are the employer and they find a new job. Or maybe your besties, friends, they're no longer a friend. And you're sitting there stuck thinking, what happened to my friend? What happened to my job position? What happened to my spouse? Oh, because these people are straight manipulating you. And don't take accountability when you say, you put me into this. That's deception. People can be manipulated. People can lie. I get it. No one's perfect. But to get upset when someone catches you making someone believe this is that, and then you're wasting their time believing this is that. And then you switch up on the person, then get mad when the person calls you out. You know, that sign, those signs got some problems. Listen, you're grown. Yeah, I made you believe this and that. Okay. But I shouldn't have did that, okay? But I wasn't thinking deeper about that issue at that time, okay? So why we even having this conversation? Okay? I guess I can be me, okay? I'm not gonna make excuses on me. I'm not gonna put too much emotions on me. I'm not trying to sound brilliant on me. I'm not trying to be all over the place on me, on me, on me. You just gotta understand, just be you, okay? Be you, be you, be you, okay? But this is just the scenarios I've been through. I'm not trying to be the most responsible on me. I'm not trying to be the most stubborn on me. I'm not trying to sound brilliant on me. I'm not trying to be all over the place on me, on me, on me. You just gotta understand, just be you, okay? Be you, be you, be you, okay? But this is just the scenarios I've been through.
