Who the FUCH was gonna tell me

@quirklessbadtz

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Why it worked

The video likely resonated with viewers due to its relatable narrative about unrequited crushes and the complexities of identity, particularly within LGBTQ+ experiences. The creator's candid and humorous storytelling, combined with the dramatic escalation of the situation, created an engaging and shareable narrative.

Summary

The creator recounts a confusing and frustrating experience with a friend who developed a crush on them. Despite the creator being a gay trans man and not attracted to women, the friend persisted, misgendered him, and even had another friend confess her feelings. The creator eventually cut off contact due to the friend's disrespectful and transphobic behavior.

Structure

1Friend develops a crush, creator is not interested
2Creator's identity and the friend's actions create confusion
3Friend's behavior escalates to misgendering and disrespect
4Creator confronts the situation and cuts off contact
5Creator reflects on the friend's actions and their own identity

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Who the FUCH was gonna tell me how genuinely awkward it is when one of your friends like you, and you DO NOT feel the same way? Cookie Crust Base I'm a gay trans guy, late Ganache and majority of my friends are girls, so, I never really thought I'd have this problem. But good fuck, was I WRONG. I had this friend. knew her since middle school, but only started talking to her more after realizing we had majority of our classes together during freshman year. Okay, cool. I feel like we're becoming closer friends because she's talking to me more, almost always walking together to our classes, just doing stuff I do with my closer friends, you know? WRONG. On one fateful day, I get on the phone with my beautiful group chat that she's not in, and guess what they tell me? She has a THING for me. and not a small little crush. No. it was something genuine, something REAL. I was flabbergasted. but after that day, she stopped talking to me. She didn't know someone told me, but, she just started ignoring me completely. and that didn't make ANY sense. But then a few weeks later, she comes out to all of us as a lesbian. WHILE looking at me. Mind you, I'm a trans guy, so I'm even more confused. And even after and during all of this, she's still talking to my other friends about liking me, even though someone told her, And I've told her myself, that I'm currently head over heels for a MAN. And guess what? She doesn't care. Because why would she give a shit, right? And then, THEN, I get intel that she's been referring to me as she/her behind my back, even after being corrected multiple times??? But that's not where it stops. One day, one awkward ass unfortunate day, one of her friends come up to me, and you know what they tell me? Mochi Yeah, uh, my friend wanted me to tell you that she like you. Chocolate Mousse so not only is this girl currently completely ignoring me, but she's also disregarding the fact that I'm not attracted to women, she's a lesbian herself. She's purposefully misgendering me, but she had the nerve to get someone to confess to me for her??? Girl. No. Sooo, I told her friend to tell her that I like men. I'm not attracted to women in any way, shape, or form other than platonically. And now I've completely stopped talking and interacting with her. I hate losing a friend, but this was just blatantly disrespectful and transphobic. So, anyway, Badtz iz oooout.

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I forgot to mention that she did try to talk to me again and acted oblivious when I told her to fuck off. So idk if she was trying some type of push-pull method?? Idk but ts does NOT work on me 🫩 :: #rant #viral #badtzrantz #transphobia #transman ::

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Who the FUCH was gonna tell me how genuinely awkward it is when one of your friends like you, and you DO NOT feel the same way? Cookie Crust Base. I'm a gay trans guy, late Ganache, and majority of my friends are girls, so, I never really thought I'd have this problem. But good fuck, was I WRONG. I had this friend. Knew her since middle school, but only started talking to her more after realizing we had majority of our classes together during freshman year. Okay, cool. I feel like we're becoming closer friends because she's talking to me more, almost always walking together to our classes, just doing stuff I do with my closer friends, you know? WRONG. On one fateful day, I get on the phone with my beautiful group chat that she's not in, and guess what they tell me? She has a THING for me. And not a small little crush. No. It was something genuine, something REAL. I was flabbergasted. But after that day, she stopped talking to me. She didn't know someone told me, but, she just started ignoring me completely. And that didn't make ANY sense. But then a few weeks later, she comes out to all of us as a lesbian. WHILE looking at me. Mind you, I'm a trans guy, so I'm even more confused. And even after and during all of this, she's still talking to my other friends about liking me, even though someone told her, and I've told her myself, that I'm currently head over heels for a MAN. And guess what? She doesn't care. Because why would she give a shit, right? And then, THEN, I get intel that she's been referring to me as she/her behind my back, even after being corrected multiple times??? But that's not where it stops. One day, one awkward ass unfortunate day, one of her friends come up to me, and you know what they tell me? Mochi. Yeah, uh, my friend wanted me to tell you that she like you. Chocolate Mousse. So not only is this girl currently completely ignoring me, but she's also disregarding the fact that I'm not attracted to women, she's a lesbian herself. She's purposefully misgendering me, but she had the nerve to get someone to confess to me for her??? Girl. No. Sooo, I told her friend to tell her that I like men. I'm not attracted to women in any way, shape, or form other than platonically. And now I've completely stopped talking and interacting with her. I hate losing a friend, but this was just blatantly disrespectful and transphobic. So, anyway, Badtz iz oooout.