3 conversation starters that work for EVERY talking stage

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The video leverages relatable dating advice and a popular trend of AI-generated content to provide actionable tips. The creator's personal anecdote about using an AI video app to start a conversation with her boyfriend adds a personal touch and demonstrates the effectiveness of the method.

Summary

The video presents three conversation starters designed to work in any dating stage. It suggests asking a niche question, sending a funny video, or starting with a basic statement and evolving it into a more complex topic.

Structure

1Introduce the topic of conversation starters
2Explain the first starter: asking a niche question
3Explain the second starter: sending a funny AI-generated video
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3 convo starters that work for EVERY talking stage #dating #datingadvice #Relationship #girladvice #romanceadvicepart5

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3 conversation starters that work for EVERY talking stage 1/3 Number one 1/3 This is really 1/3 psychological 1/3 aspect of things 1/3 past that. 1/3 How was your day? 1/3 Boring question. 1/3 So just ask one 1/3 Number one, hey, 1/3 opinion on something? 1/3 I'm doing a survey 2/3 and I'm wondering 2/3 what the craziest 2/3 thing you do for $1,000 is. 2/3 start a conversation 2/3 by just sending a stupid 2/3 random funny video. 2/3 Cause when I was in 2/3 with my boyfriend, 2/3 he'd always 2/3 I knew I liked him 2/3 because he was funny, 2/3 joke around. 2/3 specifically 2/3 these stupid AI 2/3 brain rot videos for me. 2/3 how he did it too. 2/3 app make them for him. 2/3 He'd go to this app 2/3 choose a character, 2/3 write whatever 2/3 press generate and 3/3 start with something 3/3 into something 3/3 For example maybe 3/3 I'm so bored, like, 3/3 doing today? 3/3 what he's doing, 3/3 conversation will start. 3/3 These things are 3/3 the iceberg.

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3 conversation starters that work for EVERY talking stage Number one is really psychological aspect of things, past that. How was your day? Boring question. So just ask one of the following. Number one, hey, can I ask your opinion on something? I'm doing a survey and I'm wondering what the craziest thing you do for $1,000 is. Number two is start a conversation by just sending a stupid random funny video. Cause when I was in with my boyfriend, he'd always I knew I liked him because he was funny, joke around. I remember specifically he'd always these stupid AI brain rot videos for me. How he did it too. He'd go to this app, choose a character, write whatever, press generate and the video would be made for him in like two minutes. Send it my way. I ate it up every single time. We're dating now. Number three, start with something basic and move into something more complex. For example, maybe I'm so bored, like, what are you doing today? Then he'll tell you what he's doing, and then the whole conversation will start. These things are just the tip of the iceberg. So if you need more, follow and you'll know where to find me.