WHEN A GUY LIKES YOU,

@coachveeph

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Matchmaking Manilaseen in 13 videos →www.matchmakingmanila.com ↗

Why it worked

The video uses a relatable and slightly controversial dating 'hack' that sparks curiosity and encourages engagement through comments. The creator then pivots to a soft sell of her services, leveraging the initial hook to attract viewers interested in dating advice.

Summary

The video discusses how men react differently to women who act "delusional" or emotionally available. It suggests that if a man likes you, he'll appreciate your emotional availability, but if he doesn't, acting that way will drive him away. The creator then promotes her matchmaking services and a bundle, encouraging viewers to book a consultation.

Structure

1Men like when women are delusional if they like them.
2If a man doesn't like you, acting delusional will make him run away.
3Emotional availability attracts men who are interested.
4Don't play hard to get; be genuine but make them prove themselves.
5Promotes matchmaking consultation and a bundle.

Original caption

Girl... kilig responsibly. 🤍 Being a little delulu is fun. Building a relationship based on assumptions isn't. Psychology shows that people value what they invest in. So before you give someone your full attention, your future plans, or your heart... See if they're consistently investing in you first. Chemistry can happen overnight. Trust takes time. 💭 What's your biggest delulu moment in dating? 👀 🤍 Ready to date with more confidence and intention? Book your consultation at www.matchmakingmanila.com/consult #MatchmakingManila #CoachVee #DatingPsychology #IntentionalDating #HealthyRelationships @Bare It All Podcast

More from @coachveeph

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Product placement

Coach Vee (creator) ACTS as a dating coach, offering advice and consultations. Removing her would change the video. Matchmaking Manila (company) ACTS as a dating company, offering consultations and an exclusive database. Removing it would change the video. The Filipina Femininity Advantage™ Bundle (product) ACTS as a service/product being sold, including live coaching and an ebook. Removing it would change the video. www.matchmakingmanila.com (website) APPEARS as a URL for booking consultations and the bundle. Removing it would not change the video's content but would make booking harder. Nineties (brand) APPEARS on a cardigan. Removing it would not change the video.

Call to action

Book your consultation at www.matchmakingmanila.com

On-screen text

WHEN A GUY LIKES YOU, THEY WANT TO SEE YOU BEING DELUSIONAL BUT WHEN A GUY DOESN'T LIKE YOU IF YOU ACT DELUSIONAL THEY'LL ACTUALLY RUN AWAY OH, SHIT SO, WHEN YOU SHOW THAT YOU'RE EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE THEY'RE JUST GONNA COME IN CLOSER IF THEY REALLY LIKE YOU BUT IF NOT YOU'RE DELUSIONAL. PLAY HARD TO GET AND MEAN IT DO NOT PLAY HARD TO GET BUT YOU'LL DIE DEEP INSIDE YOU WANT TO MARRY DOESN'T MEAN THAT YOU TELL THEM YOU LIKE THEM THAT YOU'RE ALREADY SOLD. NO, I LIKE YOU BUT YOU STILL HAVE TO PROVE YOURSELF DATING COACH VEE 1st step is to... BOOK YOUR 1-ON-1 MATCHMAKING CONSULTATION www.matchmakingmanila.com INCLUDES ACCESS TO OUR EXCLUSIVE DATABASE EXCLUSIVE OFFER FILIPINA FEMININITY ADVANTAGE™ BUNDLE 1-on-1 with Coach Vee LIVE COACHING THE FEMININITY EBOOK YOURS TO KEEP matchmakingmanila.com/ffabundle

Transcript

When a guy likes you, they want to see you being delusional. But when a guy doesn't like you, if you act delusional, they'll actually run away. Oh, shit. So, when you show that you're emotionally available, they're just gonna come in closer if they really like you. But if not, you're delusional. Play hard to get and mean it. Do not play hard to get, but you'll die deep inside. You want to marry. Doesn't mean that you tell them you like them that you're already sold. No, I like you, but you still have to prove yourself.