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And one of the craziest things you gonna learn about narcissistic people

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The video likely resonated with viewers by providing a clear and relatable explanation of a common manipulative tactic used by narcissistic individuals, tapping into shared experiences and offering validation.

Summary

The speaker explains that narcissistic individuals operate through reactive abuse, consistently provoking others with small actions until they finally react. Once the victim responds, the narcissist then portrays themselves as the victim and the other person as the aggressor.

Structure

1Introduction to narcissistic behavior
2Explanation of reactive abuse
3The cycle of provocation and reaction
4The narcissist playing the victim
5The victim being labeled as the aggressor

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And one of the craziest things you gonna learn about narcissistic people is they operate off of reactive abuse. They keep doing little stuff to you over time, constantly poking you, poking you, poking you, poking the bear, poking the bear, till you finally react, till you finally say, stop poking me, stop touching me. Now they wanna point their fingers at you. Oh, look at them. Look how they reacting. they so angry, they so emotional. Oh, I'm the victim. That's how they act. That's exactly what they do. They do all this petty, immature stuff to you. Then when you finally react, or you respond to it all, oh, now you're the bad guy. Now they're the victim. Now you're the angry one. You're the emotional abusive one. You're the emotional reactive one. And they was poking you and poking you and poking you the entire time.