My worst nightmare video

My biggest fear is like having a girlfriend but some other guy has a video of her getting cracked and pounded inside his phone. Or like, or like some guy having a video of him slapping this shit on her tongue in his phone. Like bro, I would lose my shit. And he not wrong. And I'm tired of y'all men with this take on acting like he wrong for what he said. If you can deal with that, then that's fine. But everybody know what they can and can't deal with and they know their limits and that's his. That's mine's too. Because I'm not about to be with no man who I've seen a video cross my desk of him and some woman being intimate, his mouth all on her, it's not gonna work. It's not gonna work. Every time I see him, all I'm gonna think about is that video. Now, do I know that there's been women before me? Absolutely, that's common sense. But I don't want to see a video of it. Once I see a video of it, it's done. Like I can't get that image out of my head. But you're not gonna tell me that I'm wrong because I know myself enough to know that I can't get over something like that. See, because what we not gonna do is sit up and try to normalize this like everybody just be going around recording and amateur porn. Do a lot of y'all do it? Yes. That still don't mean that everybody has to participate in it. And what you not gonna do is make it seem like the person who got a problem with that video, that they the problem. No, it's not normal and nobody has to be okay with it. People with no standards would really get mad at you because you ain't willing to accept anything like they are. They be so damn bad and just wanting somebody that they'll take whatever it come with. And then be mad at you cuz you won't do the same. That's not normal. And nobody has to be okay with it.