This is a triggering picture for a lot of women. What it showcases is that those degrees and that education cannot outweigh a man's physical attraction to a woman. Right? You can get as many degrees as you want, you can get the biggest house, you can go get the nicest luxury car, you can put that bust down, you can beat your face down to the gods. And at the end of the day, if that man thinks that you're attractive, whether it be because of your weight or how you present yourself with the lashes and the wigs, if he don't find you attractive, none of the other stuff that you got means anything. Nobody cares. Right? Nobody cares when all of that stuff that you got is wrapped up in a body that they don't want. That's the key to self-awareness. That's understanding that. If you win and got those degrees for yourself, that house for yourself, that car for yourself, all of that is wonderful and great, that's who you should have did it for. But if you think that it made you get any closer to somebody wanting you because of those things, it didn't. Because if you physically still don't look the way somebody wants you to look, none of it means anything. You cannot out perform your way into the man that you want the way a man can go and get those different things. And you would think by now you would have understood it because me and told y'all this God knows how many times. We don't care. And a lot of times they say they don't care, it ain't really necessarily that they don't care. Because if that fine girl came with degrees and money and a house, like that would be fine and well, that would just be icing on the cake. If she came with all of that wonderful stuff too. But they definitely would never pick you over her because of the things that you got. But again, that's the key to self-awareness. We got to start being more self-aware because once you become more self-aware, everything starts making more sense. It's just a lot of coping going on. Continuously saying you being intimidating is the reason why men won't pursue you, why they don't shoot their shot at you. Are there women who intimidate men? Yes. But most times the women who think it's them is not the women who actually intimidate men. And I've even seen your cases where your more attractive women who run off and use that intimidating thing. And in that case, it don't usually be your intimidating, your annoying. And you're confusing annoying with intimidating. Men don't want to deal with you because you annoy them, not because they're intimidated. The ones who always think that they are intimidated are usually never the women who actually intimidate men. And obviously, I've seen your cases where your more attractive women who run off and use that intimidating thing. And in that case, it don't usually be your intimidating, your annoying. And you're confusing annoying with intimidating. Men don't want to deal with you because you annoy them, not because they're intimidated.
