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Is this mic even on? I wonder what this even about. I bought both of you here because I need to understand something. You two fall for each other fast. Faster than almost any parent I talk about. So Aries. What happens the moment you meet an Aquarius? HONESTLY. I STOPPED PERFORMING. MOST PEOPLE NEED ME TO EXPLAIN. AQUARIUS DOESN'T. THEY JUST GET IT ALMOST IMMEDIATELY. MOST PEOPLE WANT SOMETHING FROM ME EMOTIONALLY BEFORE THEY EVEN KNOW ME. BUT. ARIES. I DON'T EVEN HAVE TO PERFORM CLOSENESS. THEY JUST MATCH MY ENERGY AND KEEP MOVING. THAT'S RARE. TOO. HONESTLY. SO YOU BOTH SAYING THE SAME RELIEF. BEING UNDERSTOOD WITHOUT HAVING TO WORK FOR IT. SOUNDS PERFECT. BUT THAT'S EXACTLY THE PROBLEM. ARIES. BE HONEST. HOW LONG DOES IT USUALLY TAKE YOU TO THINK THAT YOU KNOW SOMEONE? A FEW CONVERSATIONS. MAYBE A WEEK. BECAUSE ONCE I DECIDE THAT I'M IN. I CAN SAY THE SAME THING FAST. ONCE SOMEONE DOESN'T BORE ME I STOP BEING GUARDED ALMOST IMMEDIATELY. SO HERE'S WHAT NOBODY IN THIS PARENT WANTS TO HEAR. Y'ALL BOTH MISTAKEN SPEED FOR DEPTH. ARIES. YOU FEEL UNDERSTOOD BUT YOU STILL HAVEN'T BEEN TESTED YET. AQUARIUS. YOU FEEL SAFE BUT YOU HAVEN'T ACTUALLY BEEN CHALLENGED YET. OKAY. THAT'S ANNOYING BUT GO ON. I MEAN. SHE HERE'S WHAT HAPPENED. ACTUALLY THREE MONTHS IN. THREE MONTHS IN. ARIES GETS BORED OF A CONNECTION IF IT'S NOT ACTIVELY FOUGHT FOR. AQUARIUS GETS BORED OF A CONNECTION THAT STARTS ASKING FOR MORE THAN SPACE AND CONVERSATION. THAT EXACT THING THAT PULLS YOU TWO TOGETHER. MOVING FAST. NO IS THE EXACT THING THAT STARTS FEELING LIKE IT'S NOT ENOUGH. ARIES WHEN AQUARIUS PULLS BACK TO THINK. WHAT DOES THAT FEEL LIKE TO YOU? LIKE THE LAST PART IS OVER. LIKE. NOW I HAVE TO PROVE SOMETHING THAT I DIDN'T SIGN UP TO. OKAY. HERE'S THE ACTUAL FIX. AND IT'S SIMPLE. ARIES AQUARIUS PULLING BACK ISN'T HIM LOSING INTEREST. IT'S HOW THEY PROCESS. SOUNDS CRAZY. AQUARIUS EVERYONE AND MORE IS NOT PRESSURE. IT'S JUST HOW THEY SHOW THEY'RE STILL SAME BELIEF THAT BROUGHT YOU TOGETHER CAN STILL BE IT JUST CAN'T BE THE WHOLE RELATIONSHIP. I DON'T NEED IT TO STAY EASY. I JUST NEED TO KNOW IT'S REAL. AND I DON'T NEED TO PROVE OF ANYTHING. I JUST NEED YOU TO TRUST THAT THE QUIET ISN'T ME WALKING AWAY. ARIES AND AQUARIUS DON'T FALL IN LOVE SLOW. THEY FALL INTO RELIEF. AND WHETHER THAT TURNS INTO SOMETHING DEPENDS ON WHAT HAPPENS ONCE THE RELIEF IS GONE. IF YOU ARE AN ARIES AND YOU FELT THIS? TAG EACH OTHER. LET'S SEE WHO ADMITS FIRST.