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side of aquarius isn't that they don't have feelings. It's how quickly they can convince themselves that they don't need the person that's causing them feelings. An aquarius starts seeing you as a disturbance to their peace. Baby, your access is already being reviewed. First off, what is they can detach while still being in the relationship. Makes aquarians scary. They don't always have to leave immediately. Can still talk to you, can still laugh with you, they can still lay right beside you, still keep going with the routine. Meanwhile, emotionally, that apartment is empty because an aquarius can grieve the relationship while still being inside it. So by the time something is wrong, they've already had six private board meetings and you were voted out. Aquarius doesn't always leave when they're done. Sometimes they stay become a stranger. Catch it! Also makes an aquarius dangerous is they can turn feelings into logic. Now, aquariuses can feel deeply, I promise. The problem is they don't always want their emotions running when something hurts, they analyse it, explain it, rationalise it, put it into a mental powerpoint presentation. Healthy. But the shadow side, aquarians can explain their emotions so well that they avoid actually feeling them. Catch 22 here. Instead of an aquarius saying, that hurt me, it becomes, oh, logically, we're just incompatible. Sir or ma'am, you cried last night about it. Let's start there. Let's also talk aquarius's silence can become punishment. This is where an aquarius can become toxic because when overwhelmed, they need space. And that's fair. An unhealed aquarius can turn space into an emotional disappearance. With no explanation, reassurance, no communication. Just gone. And you're sitting there wondering what happened. From taking space to yourself, make someone suffer and pay them back with your absence. Aquarius either doesn't realize or they don't care when they've crossed the line. Sometimes thing about aquarius is they can make you feel irreplaceable. Aquarius is value, independence. They don't want anyone thinking that they can't survive without them. Even their mama. The independence becomes a weapon. I don't need anybody. I'll be fine. It is. Okay. Michael Myers. Dangerous aquarius can make someone feel disposable just to prove they don't need nobody. Sometimes they push someone away that they genuinely love because needing someone too vulnerable. The thing is, you off without even giving you closure, telling you why. When aquarius decides their relationship no good luck reopening the case. It's frustrating cause you may still need a conversation closer. Just be feeling like a repeating cycle for them. Danger side of aquarius is it being emotionless. It's becoming so good at detachment that they don't know if they're protecting their peace or running from their feelings.