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My fear when I hear young women say, "I froze the biological clock," is that they think this is guaranteed. They think, "I put a baby on ice, not my eggs. And I'm just going to go and thaw it when I'm ready to become a mother." It's not that. That's the problem. She points to stories like Evelyn Gosnell's. Evelyn froze her eggs three times at ages 32, 36, and 38 for a total of 30 eggs, considered a very safe number. Did you have some level of comfort? Absolutely. Even my doctor was like, "That's insane. Like you're, this is going to be a breeze. Totally. No problem." But when Evelyn and her now-fiancé Edward went to use her 30 frozen eggs, only 19 survived the thaw. An unusually poor result. Even worse, once those 19 eggs were fertilized, only one grew to be an embryo. Anxiously hoping for positive results, they sent a few cells off for genetic testing to see if the embryo was viable. So I was at work and got this message saying, "We have your test results before we give them to you, if you want to know the sex." Boy, girl? I just started to think, "Oh, wow, they've asked me this, if I want to know the sex, it means that there's a real embryo there. That means that this is real. It's normal. It's going to be fine. It's all going to be good." And then boom, I get the report and I open it and it's abnormal. And it was a girl. There was no chance the embyro could become a baby.