Post by @twin.flame.codex

So many times I think it’s my twin’s job to listen, understand, and validate me. But whenever I hand that responsibility over to someone else, I’m reminded: The only person who can truly give me that is me. My twin is the mirror—constantly reflecting back what’s happening in my inner world. Where am I not listening to myself? Where am I not understanding myself? Where am I waiting for someone else to validate what I already know and feel? And let me tell you… this can be really fucking hard. A tale as old as time… The protective parts of me can be SO sure that they’re the one to point the finger at. So sure that if they would just understand, listen, or see me, then I could finally feel okay. This is a huge activation we work with inside the Codex—and I am not perfect at this. At all. I’m still learning how to navigate this space. I’m still catching myself. Still learning when to speak and when the work is actually asking me to turn inward. Because sometimes the work isn’t explaining yourself one more time. Or from a different angle. Sometimes the work is to keep your damn mouth shut 😂 and turn inward. Listen to yourself. Understand yourself. Validate yourself. This can all happen while staying in Union. It’s absolutely possibly. But the separation is necessary, so I can finally see me, be there for me. So I can course correct and create union inside. 😍 That’s where the shift happens. You don’t have to do this alone. We love you. 🫶🏻❤️‍🔥 #TwinFlame #TwinFlames #RunnerChaser #innerwork #spiritualawakening