5 things I stopped doing to become a millionaire by 26 you’re welcome
1. Stop having s*x with men
So the first thing I did was actually stop having sex with men. Sex is the most powerful and confusing drug to partake in if you are doing it with the wrong person. Your money will go down, your self esteem will go down, your health will go down, you’ll get uglier if you're doing it with the wrong person. And I honestly think being boy crazy is just you trying to distract yourself from your potential because maybe you believe you can't support yourself and I'm telling you as a woman, you're the most powerful creature on this earth.
2. Get Rid of Low Leverage Tasks
You also need to get rid of low leverage tasks and let me give you an example of this because a lot of you guys are doing this and it's why you're still broke. Hello, oh think, oh naughty naughty. Think, oh naughty naughty. Come say hi hi hi haha. Hi.
If you want to be a wealthy woman, you have to learn how to focus on the highest leverage most important task of your day and ignore everything else. For example, this one's gonna trigger some people. Let's say you ordered something from Amazon, you didn't like it and it was like $20 right? You're gonna spend time arguing with an agent on the phone, wasting mental energy on trying to get a small measly $17 back when you could be like, I'm gonna ignore that and keep building my business. I need my brain channel clear. I don't even do refunds unless they're $2,000 and up. If I lost money, sick. I'm gonna focus on making more.
3. F*ck Your Victim Mindset
3 is a victim mindset. Everyone has a sob story, but feeding into your own is actually gonna get you nowhere, babe. I was hit as a kid. There were a lot of horrible things that happened to me too. I wasn't born with money, but here I am and I became a millionaire. Here I am and I learned to love myself. Here I am and I'm actually still nice and kind and loving to people and I don't shit all over them with my own trauma. You can't change what happened to you, but you can control how you take responsibility for it in the future by not becoming what your circumstances tried to make you become. Defy that shit against all odds. You can do it. Act like it.
4. SAY NO MORE!!!
Number four was I gave away my people pleasing tendencies. And this also goes back to the low leverage thing. In the beginning when you're building anything, you have to be very vicious about your time and energy and your nose. You can't help everyone. You can't be of service to everyone. You can't drop what you're doing to go help your best friend move. No. You neglect yourself when you say yes to everyone and everything, but your priorities and the one thing you all really should be saying yes to if you're trying to grow a business or make money is this is a non-negotiable is posting on social media every single day. Everything else that doesn't get that one thing done should be no until that is done or you're just spinning in circles going nowhere. And we are probably capped on time for point five. So I'm not gonna say it, but keep following for more.
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