if someone questions

if someone questions your credibility in front of others say these lines then watch them apologize are you sure do not defend yourself say this I'm very sure but I'm curious question it to give a valid reason for if they cannot everyone will simply watch them embarrass themselves when they say I don't think you understood do not explain say this walk me through your understanding see where we are misaligned if they truly understand you learn something not they will embarrass themselves when they say that's not accurate say this please point out what now the burden of proof is on them down to you say this then this will learning opportunity for calm composed and extremely lethal they expect you to become defensive but these responses do the opposite you shift the focus you stay calm them prove their own doubt stay this composed when someone makes things difficult for you from memorizing scripts it comes from understanding what the other person is doing this is why you need these two books APEX Predator and stay silent 4. Do Not Stay on the Surface: Learn to See the Essence Behind Appearances when someone questions you in public APEX Predator break down the motive behind it it helps you see clearly that this kind of doubt is often not about it is just a test of your boundaries 21. If You Do Not Control Your Impulses, Sooner or Later Someone Will Use Them Against You you naturally lose the urge to argue with them and what stay silent teaches you is how to control your instinct to prove yourself the moment the other person attacks Day 17 Not Everything Needs a Response Day 8 Learn to Pause Before You Respond to use pauses Day 18 How to Handle Criticism Without Losing Your Calm burden of proof back to them and watch them lose their footing one book through the other person's testing one book helps you overcome the instinct to prove yourself while the official TikTok Shop Back to school event is happening bottom left and take them both home together stop being the who is always trying to prove yourself