Post by @kayandtayofficial

This is a side of lupus I don’t share very often. 🦋💜 Most of the time, I share the good days. The days I’m feeling like myself, working, being a mom and just living life. But there are also days like this… Days when something as simple as washing my hair feels like more than I have to give. And without hesitation, Tay steps in and does it for me. 🥺 I sometimes get criticized for spending “too much time on the couch,” but then I also get criticized for “doing too much.” It’s something I hear so often from other people living with autoimmune conditions too. When you have an illness people can’t always see, it can feel like there’s no right way to be sick. Some days I can do all the things, and other days my body just needs me to slow down. Living with lupus can be unpredictable, and I think sometimes the hardest parts are the ones no one really sees. I’m incredibly thankful to have someone beside me who takes care of me on the days when I need a little extra help, without ever making me feel like a burden. ❤️‍🩹 #kayandtayofficial #couples #relationships