Why does no one talk about the fact that

Why does no one talk about the fact that when you're manifesting your specific person, everyone starts coming out of the woodworks, your ex, a situation ship, literally the cashier at the grocery store. Everyone starts hitting you up. And instead of being happy, you're sitting there like, ugh, why am I getting everyone except the person that I actually want? Let me tell you why. The way to manifest is through your self concept, it's expecting to be wanted, chosen, pursued. People start reflecting that back to you. You just have less resistance to those other people. But this is literally a sign that your manifestation is coming. What you assume is what manifest. And if you wanna break down that resistance, use the role play method.