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I realized the other day or last night, I was literally at a party and this thought just came to my mind and I was like, you know what? I need to write this down as a cancer. As a cancer, there's a moment where you switch. There's a moment where everything changes in you. And yes, I've been guilty in my past of being more boy crazy and always talking about boys, okay? Yes, I've always talked about love and being in love and meeting someone and feeling like I loved them and then getting heartbroken and saying, never mind, I didn't mean it. I thought that I loved that person, but I guess that I didn't. But it's not that I didn't, it's that that person disappointed me and didn't reciprocate the love that I was giving. So I had to move on, you know? Cause one thing a cancer isn't gonna do is stay when they're not feeling that love. But here's where the switch comes. Here's where the cancer wakes up. It gave me lessons. And now I am so good with myself that I don't need to date. Like, you know if I meet somebody great, this is where she realizes she's not gonna push it. I'm not actually gonna force it. I'm not gonna let that be the forefront of everything now. And the more important thing is I'm focused on me, my career, my passions, what makes me happy, my hobbies, just becoming the best version of myself each and everyday. And when that person comes, God willing, yes, I'm gonna be so happy. Because I've been waiting for that all my life. That's just the reality. But I am so good with myself now. And that's the cancer switch.