cancer ♋️

Something is happening with the cancer collective right now and I know I'm not the only cancer feeling this because I've talked to one of my best friends that's a cancer and I'm observing her actions and we're both kind of on the same page with things and it's that cancers are changing. We're not giving as much, we're not over explaining. We're not constantly checking in on people who don't check on us. We're not fighting to keep relationships alive by ourselves anymore. It even makes sense astrologically, cause for the last year Jupiter was moving through cancer. It was expanding our emotions, sense of home, forcing us to really look at where we were over giving. Us cancers were naturally nurturing. We love hard, we make people feel safe. We remember everything we care about, everything. We'll pour into people we love until there's nothing left for us to give. I think a lot of us cancers are realising that being loving doesn't mean we have to let go of our own boundaries. We're becoming selective with our energy. One of the biggest shifts is we're okay with being alone, not lonely alone. And there's a difference in that coz now we're realising that our own company feels better than inconsistent relationships, forced friendships or giving more than we've ever received. We're just changing. It doesn't mean we're becoming colder, just truly means we're getting better at discerning.