Post by @thebiggodwin

Never mix love and loans. 💸 I learned this lesson the hard way so you don't have to.A while back, I borrowed $350 from my girlfriend as a temporary borrow. Later down the line, she needed a major surgery. Out of love and support, I stepped up and gave her $2,000 to cover it completely.But guess what? She looked me in the eye and reminded me that the original $350 loan was still open.At first, it blew my mind. But it taught me a massive lesson about the psychology of money in relationships. Borrowing creates a strict, transactional debt in a person's mind. Giving a gift or helping during a life crisis comes from an entirely different emotional space—it doesn't automatically erase past financial obligations. To keep your relationship clean and avoid dangerous friction, stop borrowing from your partner altogether.Fellas, would you be mad about this, or does she actually have a valid point? Ladies, let me know your side. Let’s talk in the comments. 👇#RelationshipAdvice #PsychologyOfMoney #FinancialBoundaries #MoneyTips #TheBigGodwin