one of the many things i learn about friendship

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The video resonates because it validates the common, often guilt-ridden experience of drifting apart from friends, offering a healthy, mature perspective on letting go.

Summary

The creator discusses the reality that friendships can end naturally without conflict as people grow and change. He emphasizes that ending a friendship is a normal part of life and that nothing is permanent.

Structure

1Friendships can end without conflict
2Friendships can be outgrown or fade naturally
3Normalize ending friendships without explanation
4Friendships require effort to maintain
5Nothing in life is permanent

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one of the many things i learn about friendship is pwede siyang magtapos ng not necessarily magkagalit kayo kasi di ba pag inisip natin na natapos na yung friendship, hindi na kayo friends niyan, walang pumapasok sa isip natin is parang baka may hinawaan, baka mag aaway, pero hindi siya totoo all the time. may mga friendship na na outgrow, may mga friendship na hindi mo namamalayan unti unti ng namamatay, may mga friendship na intentionally tinatapos, ibat iba na kayo ng chances or ibat iba na yung perspective niyo. hindi na siya yung friend na nakilala mo before as well as hindi ka na rin ganun sa kanya na outgrow niyo na yung isat isa. and over the years, may mga friendship ako na intentionally tinatapos ko talaga kasi kagaya ng sabi ko, hindi na kami parehas ng stances in life and i don't think i contribute to their growth anymore. and i don't think either nakakacontribute pa sila sa well-being ko. that being said, we should normalize closing chapters na hindi kailangang inexplain kung bakit siya nagtapos. we should normalize ending friendship as it is na ganun na siya. hindi mo kailangang habulin anong reason, san ka nagkulang, bakit ka nagbago, bakit siya nagbago? ganun na talaga siya. sadyang ganun na siya. kasi ganun naman eh. merong bibitaw, merong magpapaalam, tapos meron ulit tayong makikilalang bago. merong mananatili, merong maglalet go, merong dadating na bago. kailangan nating iallow yun sa mga sarili natin na not everything will. stay the same all the time. also, realize na yung tinatrabaho talaga siya. tinatrabaho siya to keep up with each other, to be involved with each other's life, to still choose to still be part of each other's life. and you will make that decision kung ilang taon ba na to, tatawid pa ba to sa next chapter ng buhay ko, kung magiging pa ba siya sa mga ganap ko sa buhay as well as you. desisyon din yun ng friend mo Kung include ka pa niya sa iba pa niyang chapter sa buhay niya o hindi. so be it. uulitin ko, nothing, nothing in this world is permanent. everything you see, everyone we know, we ourselves are temporary.

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one of the many things i learn about friendship is pwede siyang magtapos ng not necessarily magkagalit kayo. kasi di ba pag inisip natin na natapos na yung friendship, hindi na kayo friends niyan, walang pumapasok sa isip natin is parang baka may hinawaan, baka mag aaway, pero hindi siya totoo all the time. may mga friendship na na outgrow, may mga friendship na hindi mo namamalayan unti unti ng namamatay, may mga friendship na intentionally tinatapos, ibat iba na kayo ng chances or ibat iba na yung perspective niyo. hindi na siya yung friend na nakilala mo before as well as hindi ka na rin ganun sa kanya. na outgrow niyo na yung isat isa. and over the years, may mga friendship ako na intentionally tinatapos ko talaga kasi kagaya ng sabi ko, hindi na kami parehas ng stances in life and i don't think i contribute to their growth anymore. and i don't think either nakakacontribute pa sila sa well-being ko. that being said, we should normalize closing chapters na hindi kailangang ineexplain kung bakit siya nagtapos. we should normalize ending friendship as it is na ganun na siya. hindi mo kailangang habulin anong reason, san ka nagkulang, bakit ka nagbago, bakit siya nagbago? ganun na talaga siya. sadyang ganun na siya. kasi ganun naman eh. merong bibitaw, merong magpapaalam, tapos meron ulit tayong makikilalang bago. merong mananatili, merong maglalet go, merong dadating na bago. kailangan nating iallow yun sa mga sarili natin na not everything will. stay the same all the time. also, realize na yung tinatrabaho talaga siya. tinatrabaho siya to keep up with each other, to be involved with each other's life, to still choose to still be part of each other's life. and you will make that decision kung ilang taon ba na to, tatawid pa ba to sa next chapter ng buhay ko, kung magiging pa ba siya sa mga ganap ko sa buhay as well as you. desisyon din yun ng friend mo Kung include ka pa niya sa iba pa niyang chapter sa buhay niya o hindi. so be it. uulitin ko, nothing, nothing in this world is permanent. everything you see, everyone we know, we ourselves are temporary.