If a guy goes through a breakup

If a guy goes through a breakup, I don't I get these questions a lot. Oh my god, I got broken up with him. He's crushed. Well, I kind of tell them like, here's a few things to do, okay? Like, if the girl broke up with you, she does not want to be with you anymore, then one, you need to call off attention, okay? You got to withdraw your attention because as long as you're giving her attention when she doesn't want you, your value drops in the chance of ever getting back with her if that's what you want. Maybe you don't want to, doesn't matter, but your value is dropping like a sack of potatoes. So, one, you have to withdraw attention. Secondly, you have to get up obsession with leveling up. Obsessed with getting stronger, getting leaner, looking better, obsessed with improving yourself socially, improving yourself from a professional standpoint with your business, your career, get obsessed, dressing better, improving your offer. And then, you know, if you do those two things, uh it is very, very, very powerful. Um if you can do those two things, like you it's it's night and day. And a lot of times that girl that broke up with you will start, you know, she'll start like hitting you up.