Unpopular opinion, fellas. Go marry that woman.

Unpopular opinion, fellas. Go marry that woman. Go marry that woman. Listen man, don't let these jealous single folks try and fool you into thinking that you're missing something out here, man. There ain't shit out here, bruh. Ain't shit out here, but disappointments. You got a lady that's down for you, my man, lock her down, bro. Lock her down. And obviously, there's a disclaimer on this. I'm not telling you to lock down any old scallywag. I'm not telling you to lock down some hood rat, and I'm definitely not telling you to lock down a woman that ain't worth your time. Cause we ain't doing that. We know our worth. You feel me? You know your self-worth. I'm not telling you to lock down any old thing. You need discernment, bruh. But before, before you can go searching for a woman, before you even attempt to do that, you gotta make sure we got a couple parameters in place. First thing first, you need to make sure that you got a career, bruh. You need a path. You need a career path, okay? Doesn't matter if you're an entrepreneur, doesn't matter if you're a W-2 employee, you need to have a stable job. You can't take care of nobody else if you ain't taking care of yourself. That's first thing. Secondly, you need to make sure that you got a stable residence, stable roof over your head. You need a place of peace, okay? No if's and's or but's, period. Lastly, you need a stable means of transportation, bruh, to get to and from work. If you have one out of three, you fucked. If you got two out of three, you fucked. You need three out of three. That's just my humble opinion. In order for a man to compete just out here in the real world, bruh, you need, you need to have a career path, you gotta have focus. You need to have a crib, you gotta have a car. That's it. Or if you live in a major city, you need to have reliable means of transportation to get you to and from. And you gotta have a place that you can go to to decompress. That's it. For any grown man, you need to have three out of three. And until you have three out of three, you shouldn't even be thinking about dating. You know what I'm saying? But anyway, once you get that established, man, lock that woman down. Lock your lady down, bro. Okay? Let me tell you something. Can't nobody, can't nobody convince me that being single is better than being married. Get the fuck out of here. Never, ever, ever, ever. Never. My my wife is dope. Period. What can a single woman offer me that my wife ain't already giving me? What? Okay, you got a woman that's down for you. You got a woman that edifies you. You got your biggest cheerleader, a woman that's going to be there to listen, right? And then respond. Listen and then respond. You got somebody that's watching your six at all times. At all times, bruh. You got a woman that's going to be into you, a woman that wants to grow with you, a woman that wants to, she wants to become mature with you. You understand? It's a journey. It's a journey. And obviously, when the right man, when, excuse me, when a man finds the right woman, a woman, the perfect combination. You, when you find that right woman, you want to do everything for her. But in turn, she doesn't want you doing everything for her because she doesn't want you to get burned out. So she's looking for you to take care of yourself while you're looking to take care of her. That's like the the perfect fucking combination. You know what I'm saying? You want to do everything, you want to give her everything, but she don't want you to burn yourself out while doing it, man. Like, you got a lady like that, lock her to fuck down immediately, immediately, bruh. Everything else, the rest of these scallywags move around. Rest of these women that, you know, that are out here, they ain't worth shit, move around. Move around. You know what I'm saying? Listen, when a man is of focus, you don't even distract yourself with white noise. You just move around. Shorty, it's all good. It we had a, listen, I had a great time. It was nice knowing you. I'm out. I don't need, listen, there's no explanation needed. What's for you is for you. What's not is not. That's it. I don't believe in good or good or bad. There's alignment and misalignment. If you're not aligned with the things that I need, the things that I desire, the type of woman I need in my life, the the type of woman that I need to love me. You, you understand what I'm saying? Cause every man is different. Fuck about it. That's it, bruh. That's it, that's all. So, you know, like, in short, relationships, dope. Marriage, dope. Give a fuck what anybody is saying in 2025. I ain't paying attention to these suckers. I'm not paying attention to people with failed marriages because you didn't go into it with the best intentions or you went into it half-ass or you went into it with ulterior motives. You, you never know what's happening behind closed doors. You don't. But when you show up as yourself and you want to be 1% better and you with a woman that wants the same thing and she's showing up as herself and you like her and you love her, she likes you and she loves you. Like, obviously there are people out here that are winning, marriages that are winning. And we ain't paying attention to the marriages that are failing. Move around. That's it, that's all.