KEEP TOXIC MEN ACCOUNTABLE

@jameeljrehman

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The creator shares a personal story about intervening in a situation where an Uber driver was harassing a passenger. This relatable and emotionally charged narrative, combined with a strong message about accountability and standing up against toxic behavior, likely resonated with viewers and encouraged engagement.

Summary

The creator recounts an incident where an Uber driver harassed a female passenger in an Uber Pool. The creator intervened to protect the woman and expressed frustration with the driver's behavior and the lack of accountability for such actions. He emphasizes the need for men to stand up against toxic behavior and set a better example.

Structure

1Narrator describes toxic male behavior and the need for accountability.
2Narrator recounts an incident where an Uber driver harassed a female passenger.
3Narrator intervened to protect the woman.
4Narrator expresses frustration with the driver's persistence and the woman's discomfort.
5Narrator describes the driver's inappropriate request for the woman's contact information.
6Narrator reflects on the broader issue of toxic masculinity and the need for men to do better.

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KEEP TOXIC MEN ACCOUNTABLE Men are still farkin pigs dude. I had to get in the middle of a Uber driver in my Uber pool cracking on to the girl in front of him making her very uncomfortable but pushing her boundaries when she rejected him multiple times didn't have the courage to say so he was being persistent and in front of me dude as another guy in his car it was wild man and he was being a pig to this girl before she got into the Uber cause he saw her drive up there's a guy next to me another Uberpool guy and both of them are just pigs dude like the guy in the back just some Aussie bloke in his early 20s typical tattoos you know schnitty mustache whatever we're driving and we get up to a red light and his windows open and there's a just a gaggle of women out there just screaming and having fun just big loud laughs like ladies do and he as a reflex just goes shut the fuck up and then I didn't respond cause I was like dude why why do you need to be like that? But the the the Persian I believe Uber driver Arab looking dude had a Quran hanging from his rear view mirror started laughing along with him and he's like yes, yeah, keep it down will you? And I was just like I mean guys like this is just gross and so Yeah, there's with this poor lady this poor young girl tiny very petite girl she gets into the Uber and as we're approaching to pick her up he makes some sort of hey, how you doing the Uber driver hey and then the other guy laughs and then they sort of keep quiet just as they approach and I'm sitting there going this is fucked she gets in um and yeah, we drive for a few minutes the guy gets dropped off at some event in Icon Park and then I'm sitting in the back with this girl she's being dropped off next and as I'm just sitting in the back everyone's sitting back in the in just sitting and being quiet and he starts speaking to her and going where you from? And she goes, ah, you know, I'm Turkish and you know, I tried to make small talk but he was pushing on and then he's like, I want to learn how to speak Turkish you should give me your number and then started like putting 0 4 on the dash of his car cause it had like, you know, the screen and he's like, what's your come on, what's your Snapchat? What's your Instagram? And she's just kind of being like, ha ha Aah and I'm just sitting in the back going what the fuck is this guy doing like take a hint bro. She is you know, feeling very awkward I can sense that She is you know, got her back up and I have to go and he asked her again and there's just so much tension I have to go the answer is no mate and then that breaks it. She kinda just like grateful that I stepped in there and then he's like kinda going like had you know he's getting taken aback going oh dude, why did you know why you cutting my jib here? I'm like, dude, you got what the fuck are you doing dude? Like the the answer is no. It's not like she's playing coy. You're a guy you're a bald guy Arab dude in shorts that's basically just been a goddamn pig to her and she is a small girl imagine if I wasn't there and so as she gets dropped off I'm like, fuck this I'm gonna get out and make sure she's okay. So as they pull up they are somewhere in Parkville she gets out and I'm like, you know what man? I'm getting the fuck out as well and I said, yeah, I'm just getting out. I don't give a shit and then we get out together. The guy pulls away and she looks at me and you know thanks me for like, you know, I just holding some ground there and giving her some security cause he's like, I don't know what I would have done um, you know, maybe just giving him a fake number or something cause he was like asking for a number or a Snapchat or something and I was like dude, like you got a friken Quran hanging from your rearview mirror bro. Allah does not approve. This is haram man. And it's just so crazy to just think that that level I mean, I've just I don't even know how to describe it. It's just still acceptable and still laughable between people nowadays and yeah, and to think that you can get away with that just in front of you just presume other men are gonna be okay with that shit dude. It's like, no man, guys are fucking pissed anyway. I don't wanna completely blow up this thing. I've definitely given one star. I've put complaints into Uber. Um, you know, his name's Ali. That's all I know. I just will let them deal with that. I don't wanna doxx the bloke. I think that's a bit too much and probably pass my boundary but go guys like fucking do better man. This is sad, really fucking sad. And to just think that other men are gonna be okay with it like this is where the shit has to end right? Stand the fuck up when you see some shit man because we need to show ladies that they can be, we can be trusted and this does not help. Alright, do better.

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Call out toxic male behaviour and hold other men accountable. My uber driver was a pig and made a poor young woman in our pool very uncomfortable and I had to step in and keep her safe. She is fine and I have reported the Uber driver. Consequences shift behaviours. People don’t change unless they feel the pain of consequence. Call it out so they think twice next time. Men need to set the example if we are to lead healthily. #accountability #toxicmasculinity #trust #polarity #harrassment

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Men are still farkin pigs dude. I had to get in the middle of a Uber driver in my Uber pool cracking on to the girl in front of him making her very uncomfortable but pushing her boundaries when she rejected him multiple times didn't have the courage to say so he was being persistent and in front of me dude as another guy in his car it was wild man and he was being a pig to this girl before she got into the Uber cause he saw her drive up there's a guy next to me another Uberpool guy and both of them are just pigs dude like the guy in the back just some Aussie bloke in his early 20s typical tattoos you know schnitty mustache whatever we're driving and we get up to a red light and his windows open and there's a just a gaggle of women out there just screaming and having fun just big loud laughs like ladies do and he as a reflex just goes shut the fuck up and then I didn't respond cause I was like dude why why do you need to be like that? But the the the Persian I believe Uber driver Arab looking dude had a Quran hanging from his rear view mirror started laughing along with him and he's like yes, yeah, keep it down will you? And I was just like I mean guys like this is just gross and so Yeah, there's with this poor lady this poor young girl tiny very petite girl she gets into the Uber and as we're approaching to pick her up he makes some sort of hey, how you doing the Uber driver hey and then the other guy laughs and then they sort of keep quiet just as they approach and I'm sitting there going this is fucked she gets in um and yeah, we drive for a few minutes the guy gets dropped off at some event in Icon Park and then I'm sitting in the back with this girl she's being dropped off next and as I'm just sitting in the back everyone's sitting back in the in just sitting and being quiet and he starts speaking to her and going where you from? And she goes, ah, you know, I'm Turkish and you know, I tried to make small talk but he was pushing on and then he's like, I want to learn how to speak Turkish you should give me your number and then started like putting 0 4 on the dash of his car cause it had like, you know, the screen and he's like, what's your come on, what's your Snapchat? What's your Instagram? And she's just kind of being like, ha ha Aah and I'm just sitting in the back going what the fuck is this guy doing like take a hint bro. She is you know, feeling very awkward I can sense that She is you know, got her back up and I have to go and he asked her again and there's just so much tension I have to go the answer is no mate and then that breaks it. She kinda just like grateful that I stepped in there and then he's like kinda going like had you know he's getting taken aback going oh dude, why did you know why you cutting my jib here? I'm like, dude, you got what the fuck are you doing dude? Like the the answer is no. It's not like she's playing coy. You're a guy you're a bald guy Arab dude in shorts that's basically just been a goddamn pig to her and she is a small girl imagine if I wasn't there and so as she gets dropped off I'm like, fuck this I'm gonna get out and make sure she's okay. So as they pull up they are somewhere in Parkville she gets out and I'm like, you know what man? I'm getting the fuck out as well and I said, yeah, I'm just getting out. I don't give a shit and then we get out together. The guy pulls away and she looks at me and you know thanks me for like, you know, I just holding some ground there and giving her some security cause he's like, I don't know what I would have done um, you know, maybe just giving him a fake number or something cause he was like asking for a number or a Snapchat or something and I was like dude, like you got a friken Quran hanging from your rearview mirror bro. Allah does not approve. This is haram man. And it's just so crazy to just think that that level I mean, I've just I don't even know how to describe it. It's just still acceptable and still laughable between people nowadays and yeah, and to think that you can get away with that just in front of you just presume other men are gonna be okay with that shit dude. It's like, no man, guys are fucking pissed anyway. I don't wanna completely blow up this thing. I've definitely given one star. I've put complaints into Uber. Um, you know, his name's Ali. That's all I know. I just will let them deal with that. I don't wanna doxx the bloke. I think that's a bit too much and probably pass my boundary but go guys like fucking do better man. This is sad, really fucking sad. And to just think that other men are gonna be okay with it like this is where the shit has to end right? Stand the fuck up when you see some shit man because we need to show ladies that they can be, we can be trusted and this does not help. Alright, do better.