Two years ago, I got divorced.

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A woman shares the painful story of her divorce and the resulting strained relationship with her son. Dr. John Delony provides insight, explaining that the son's distance is driven by a sense of disloyalty to his father rather than a lack of love for his mother.

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1Woman describes her divorce and estrangement from her son
2Dr. John Delony reframes the son's behavior as a conflict of loyalty
3The woman realizes her son's distance is not a personal rejection
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She had an affair. Her teenage son hasn't spent a single night with her since. She thought he didn't want to see her. John Delony told her every time he misses his mom he feels like betraying his dad. He's not choosing to stay away. He can't come back.💔💔 #grief #truestory #sadstory #affair #momandson

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two years got divorced an affair 16-year-old son not good extremely hurt understand from what I did really don't relationship at all legal joint custody of him with my ex but he never spent the night with me rarely communicates with me weeks at a time without seeing him feels like someone has died yeah they have yes what was your relationship with him is died yeah it's over yes here's another tension anytime he has a feeling of I miss my mom I just want to hug my mom I just want to go home there will be a hot burning fire of disloyalty against his dad when he feels like that that makes sense so know this every time he does say yes to you he's doing that at the expense and this sounds strange of his 16-year-old conscience which is I'm being unloyal to my father anything I do I feel trapped because I miss my dad I miss my mom but every time I send a text back I feel like I just I was disloyal behind my dad's back right I hadn't hadn't really thought about it like that before and so if you think about this way it might be that he doesn't want to be around you right now but it might be and this sounds crazy he can't be

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Two years ago, I got divorced. I had an affair and I have a 16-year-old son and my relationship with him is not good. He is extremely hurt as I can understand from what I did and we really don't have a relationship at all. I have legal joint custody of him with my ex, but he has never spent the night with me. He rarely communicates with me. I'll go weeks at a time without seeing him and it feels like someone has died. Yeah, they have. Yes. I mean, what was your relationship with him is died. Yeah, it's over. Yes. Here's another tension. Anytime he has a feeling of I miss my mom or I just want to hug my mom or I just want to go home, there will be a hot burning fire of disloyalty against his dad when he feels like that. That makes sense. And so know this that every time he does say yes to you, he's doing that at the expense and this sounds strange of his 16-year-old conscience, which is I'm being unloyal to my father. Anything I do, I feel trapped because I miss my dad, I miss my mom, but every time I send a text back, I feel like I just I was disloyal behind my dad's back. Right? I hadn't I hadn't really thought about it like that before. And so if you think about this way, it might be that he doesn't want to be around you right now, but it might be and this sounds crazy, he can't be.