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Two years ago, I got divorced. I had an affair and I have a 16-year-old son and my relationship with him is not good. He is extremely hurt as I can understand from what I did and we really don't have a relationship at all. I have legal joint custody of him with my ex, but he has never spent the night with me. He rarely communicates with me. I'll go weeks at a time without seeing him and it feels like someone has died. Yeah, they have. Yes. I mean, what was your relationship with him is died. Yeah, it's over. Yes. Here's another tension. Anytime he has a feeling of I miss my mom or I just want to hug my mom or I just want to go home, there will be a hot burning fire of disloyalty against his dad when he feels like that. That makes sense. And so know this that every time he does say yes to you, he's doing that at the expense and this sounds strange of his 16-year-old conscience, which is I'm being unloyal to my father. Anything I do, I feel trapped because I miss my dad, I miss my mom, but every time I send a text back, I feel like I just I was disloyal behind my dad's back. Right? I hadn't I hadn't really thought about it like that before. And so if you think about this way, it might be that he doesn't want to be around you right now, but it might be and this sounds crazy, he can't be.