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I'm stupid, nobody likes me.

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The video addresses a common and emotionally charged concern for parents of neurodivergent children, offering practical, actionable advice in a clear and empathetic manner. The creator's expertise and relatable presentation likely resonated with the target audience.

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Dr. Mark Bowers, a licensed psychologist, discusses negative self-talk in neurodivergent children. He explains that this self-talk can stem from distress or be a response to limits, and offers five strategies for parents: validate, don't over-reassure, separate feeling from fact, return to boundaries, and teach replacement language. He also advises tracking the frequency and intensity of the self-talk and seeking professional help if needed.

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Negative Self-Talk in Neurodivergent Children: What Parents Should Do When Kids Say “I’m Stupid” When your child says, “Nobody likes me” or “I ruin everything,” it can feel terrifying in the moment. But negative self-talk isn’t always just a statement. Sometimes it’s distress. Sometimes it’s overwhelm. Sometimes it shows up right after a limit, correction, or consequence because it changes the direction of the conversation. The goal isn’t to ignore it or panic. Respond with care, keep the boundary, and teach your child new words for what they’re feeling: “This is hard.” “I need help.” “I’m frustrated.” Compassion matters. So does not accidentally teaching shame as a strategy. #NeurodivergentKids #ParentingTips #ChildMentalHealth #NegativeSelfTalk #NeurodivergentParenting