Rating my first 3 dates after getting out of a 6-year relationship

Rating my first 3 dates after getting out of a 6-year relationship tinder date 2/10: met at a bar he was 20 minutes late and didn't apologize Spent the whole time talking about his ex and how she "didn't understand him," asked to split the bill then suggested we go back to his place.. I went home alone hinge date 3/10: he seemed normal over text but in person wouldn't stop talking about crypto and his side hustles every story ended with "that's why i'm grinding," didn't ask me a single question about myself. i felt like i was at a networking event, not a date Vibehouse date 11/10:he actually planned, something, suggested a quiet cafe he thought i'd like based on my profile asked about my life after my relationship, didn't make it weird, we talked for 3 hours and he walked me to my car idk if it's just me but it seems like vibehouse guys actually make you feel calm instead of anxious and regretful after a long relationship you forget what dating is like some guys make you miss being single and some make you remember why you're trying