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if his parents don't like you if his family doesn't like you you know don't try to earn their like here's my advice why don't try to earn them to like you because it makes you seem like a shit to them you know like they'll see that you're clingy and desperate as well just be like you are already let them come to you because if you flip the switch and make them think that you don't care if they don't like you and that's their problem they will try to cater to you instead using um reverse psychology like they'll see that you're not trying to bend over backwards for them or keep their approval so in response they'll think that you think you're all that and they'll do the opposite which is to try to get you to like them you gotta play the reverse role and don't care you gotta be like I heard upside down you know at family gatherings or what not don't be trying to fit all in and kiss butt and give kiss in the corner looking cute be like now if y'all wanna come talk to me y'all know where I am so um they don't think it bothers you so if they're purposely trying to make you think that they don't like you it's not gonna ever work so they'll just give that up and then go ahead and try to get your approval which you know um they don't know if your family is you know this or that so they're going to try to talk to you to get information or to see what you're all about um they're not gonna automatically just judge you um especially if you're not trying to you know get their attention or make them like you and that goes with any family it could be sisters it could be like their cousins sisters whoever it didn't matter so um don't don't be a pick me ship for his family either because another thing is if he sees you trying to be a pick me ship for his family he knows that you can do it for him too like you can suck up to him too you can see his approval too if he doesn't see the same woman that he sees he's gonna get suspicious like why are you a pygmy should to them but not to me why do you seek their approval and care about what they think and treat them this way and you don't even treat me like that so you know so you have to be um the same all around especially around his family cause then they'll say well she seems fake and then he'll think about it you know she don't do that type of you know sucking up to me or not trying to seek my approval like she's seeking y'all's approval so she must be fake you know so you have to stay the same you cannot change once you get around his family even if they don't like you don't it don't matter if he brought you to meet them he likes you and they're just have they're just gonna have to learn to accept that so um yes stay consistent don't switch it up and the family comes around don't start acting all different