okay I have been on a few

okay I have been on a few dates the past few weeks and I have noticed the same how do I say this a reoccurring issue with every single date I've been on so so we're going on a date to get to know each other and I'm asking you about your work your job your family what you like to do in your free time like I'm asking all the questions I'm nosy like I wanna know I'm curious these men do not ask anything about myself nothing nothing is that not weird like I'll even say things to like make you want to ask questions I used to work in Jacksonville I used to drive to Atlanta like once or twice a week for a very long time for work like just throwing that out there just to see what did you do for work what did you do for work why were you driving so much and nothing no question no nothing and I'm just very confused what is the point on going on a date if you're not trying to ask questions to get to know me cause I'll be asking questions I wanna know I wanna know I know exactly what I want exactly what I don't want I'm trying to see what you check off and what you don't and I'm an oversharer like you ask me a question you're gonna get all the information I have no shame I have nothing to hide I'm about to tell it all sorry it just is what it is that's his own problem with me but you don't even give me the opportunity and I'm just confused I don't understand that at all I'm just not interested I want you to know about me I want you to want to know about me and I just don't genuine genuinely it just leaves me speechless like I am mind blown at the lack of conversation that these men can have it's crazy it's crazy