PAY ATTENTION TO WHO'S ALWAYS ASKING BUT NEVER SHARING.

@32flavazz

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The video likely resonated with viewers due to its relatable message about social dynamics and boundaries in communication. The speaker's direct and assertive tone, combined with the common experience of encountering people who are overly inquisitive yet guarded, created a strong sense of connection and validation.

Summary

The speaker advises viewers to be mindful of people who ask for a lot of information but share little in return. They emphasize the importance of reciprocity in conversations and relationships, suggesting that one should not inquire about personal matters if they are unwilling to share similar details themselves.

Structure

1Introduction: The problem of information collectors who don't share.
2Examples: Personal relationships, jobs, and businesses.
3The principle of reciprocity in conversations.
4How to engage in general conversation.
5The importance of building on shared information.
6Conclusion: Keep conversations safe and comfortable by respecting boundaries.

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PAY ATTENTION TO WHO'S ALWAYS ASKING BUT NEVER SHARING.

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Everybody asking questions isn’t invested in your well-being. #monitoringspirits #lifelessons #selfawarness #protectyourpeace

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Transcript

I don't like people who collect all your information, but they don't want to share their. Don't ask me about my man if I can't ask you about yours. Don't ask me about my job if I can't ask you about yours. Don't ask me about my business if I can't ask you about yours. I think people get the game confused like don't ask people bitch stuff that you're not willing to give up. Like I don't care enough to ask you about your business. So don't come asking me nothing that I ain't asked you about. Keep it very general. When you having conversation with people, you say, how you doing? How you been? I've been good, girl, just been working, working out. Okay, cool. Oh, you've been working and working out. Where you've been working out that. Oh girl, I've been working out here. Okay, cool. like you build on the conversation. When you talk to people, you don't go instilling and asking questions about things outside of what they already presented to you. Like when I talk to people, I only talk to them about things that they have presented me with unless we've had previous conversations about other things and that still doesn't not give me um free range to go digging and asking. Like I like conversations to feel very safe and comfortable. So unless you are my ace bon. Do not, do not ask me nothing about nothing about nothing if we haven't talked about it on your end. Period.