How did I gain my confidence?

A question I get asked all the time is how did I gain my confidence? Standards. Standards for myself, standards for my relationships, standard for anything in my life that requires my energy, time, effort or just quite literally anything that involves me. If you're acting weird towards me, your energy's off, you're negative. If you're not benefiting me in some type of way as it doesn't even have to be all the time, but I'm saying for the most part and we're not pouring back into each other, you're out of my life. Why would I give my energy time and effort to people who don't care about me? And if I feel like you're acting weird towards me and I feel like you're jealous or anything like that, you're cut from my life. I don't even play like that. You're not going to drain my energy. Energy is everything. It is everything. Why would I ever put why would I ever stay in places that dim my light? So what, I can start dimming myself? No. Mhm, not happening. So I have high standards and expectations for anything and everyone around me and if they don't meet it, they're gone. They're gone. You set those expectations and standards for yourself, those boundaries for yourself, people are going to follow it. They know not to mess with you. I'm way too valuable and I know my worth to stay in places where they don't value me. Also, another thing, I think the whole world revolves around me. Yes, I do. I do. I most definitely do. I am that woman. And it's like, but that's the thing. You should think the same thing as well and most people don't so they get insecure about it and then the energy is thrown off because they're so insecure because I'm so confident. I don't like that, you know. standards have to be met, expectations have to be met or just out of my life. Same for myself. I hit the gym. I eat right. I do things I'm going to say. I make promises to myself, you know? So yeah.