ways to become more "interesting" w/out trying harder

ways to become more "interesting" w/out trying harder (aka being interesting is usually a byproduct of being curious) LEARNING HOW TO BE MORE CURIOUS! have hobbies you're genuinely interesting in hobbies are the best way to invest in things you're curious about! they foster passions make you more engaging in conversation, and allow you to connect deeply with others who share those interests! ask follow up questions in my opinion, i think the most interesting people are the ones most interested in OTHER people! collect experiences, not hot takes don't wait for "big" moments or fleeting opinions. focus on collecting experiences that boost well-being and long-term happiness! SKATING BESTIE :) be friends with people who have diff life experiences i loveee talking to people with different life experiences than me. i've been introduced to new hobbies, and have learned how to communicate in new ways! spend less time on ur phone look who's talking LOL >_< i find that the most interesting things about people are rarely the things we see online. I'M SO BAD At POOL :( try something you're bad at! being a beginner gives you stories that perfectionism never will (i learned that the hard way). there's something so vulnerable about trying something for the first itme!