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She NEEDS you to COMMUNICATE in her LANGUAGE.

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Why it worked

The video resonates with a common relationship dynamic where partners feel unheard, tapping into a shared experience and offering relatable advice on communication.

Summary

The creator emphasizes the importance of men communicating their feelings and acknowledging their partners. He suggests that a lack of open communication can lead to partners feeling unheard and resorting to indirect methods to express their needs.

Structure

1The need for men to communicate in their partner's language.
2The importance of acknowledging a partner's feelings.
3The consequences of not expressing oneself to a partner.
4The partner's potential frustration and withdrawal due to lack of communication.
5The creator's observation that men often fail to express themselves, leading to their partners feeling unheard.

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She NEEDS you to COMMUNICATE in her LANGUAGE. When is the last time you ACKNOWLEDGED her?

Transcript

She NEEDS you to COMMUNICATE in her LANGUAGE. When is the last time you ACKNOWLEDGED her? One day she'll ask you to express yourself. One day she'll ask you to express how you feel about her. One day she will expect you to communicate to her, or rather with her. Do you know how to communicate to her? Or rather with her? Do you know how to form a sentence that she will comprehend and not the one that you comprehend? Do you know how to gauge her response or her the way in which she receives the information that you are telling her? Are you able to speak to your partner without speaking at them? Like bro, does it bother you that you don't know why she's with you? Does it not bother you that you don't know why she has decided to stay with you for this long? You haven't changed the thing that she has been complaining about regarding you. Yet she stays. Do you not find it worrying or concerning that she reposts things that are directed to you, but you can't even acknowledge the fact that they are directed to you? She's trying to find a way that is non-offensive of trying to wake you up. Trying to at least tell you to communicate because she doesn't understand what you are thinking, what you want to do, where you want to go, where you've decided to place her in your life. She doesn't understand where she stands because you do not tell her where you think she stands. Do you realize how quiet she keeps? Do you realize the fact that when you speak, she often speaks the entire conversation with yourself? You're basically having a conversation with yourself. Do you realize the fact that she smiles in a routine manner? She presents herself to you in a rehearsed formation. And you don't even know that. You can't even see it. When is the last time you told her? She looks beautiful. You realize the fact that there are men who will tell her, wow, I see your new hair, looks amazing. Do you think she's not going to leave you? That's the thing with us gents, right? Yeah, we pipe it well, or you know, we do the most. We think she's there to stay. Do you not think she's aware of that? That you are unable to express how you feel and therefore she has to guess how you feel and when she responds to her guest work, you become angry at her for assuming.

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🚨 Gents 🚨 This is merely the bare minimum..⤵️ Don’t shoot the messenger, accept or refuse the message but don’t say you didn’t hear anything from anyone. #fyp #relationships #viral #foryoupage #foryou