My SISTER he told you he LOVED you having never told you HE LIKES YOU.

My sister, how couldn’t you see the flags before falling in love? Big difference between loving an idea and actually liking the person. He sold you the dream before doing the groundwork. Watch until the end to see why this is a major. The issue with many women is that they don't understand that men have already decided when they speak to you what they want to do with you. And you went straight into being told you are loved without ever being told that you are liked. Now, that's an issue. And I'll tell you why it's an issue. Because if you don't like someone, you can't still like them. However, the signs of not being liked is when a person does not consider you. They don't consider how you feel, how you think, how you react, how you assume, and why you assume. When a person loves you, it looks more like being affirmed on your, uh, let's call them calculated necessities. Things that I know you will like, and I will do them with routine. Because I like you, and that's what love is. When a person loves you, it's very, very easy for you to think that you are liked as well. The prerequisite of love is being liked. I can love you, but I can still not like you. Most women are told by men that I love you because they have pushed them into a corner of making them say it. And so what they do is they follow a routine of doing things that will personify what love means to you. And it becomes an act, it becomes a roleplay. It becomes me doing what you want me to do, knowing very well that I don't like you. But I know that if I do it, you and I are okay. I don't like you. I do however like you. When a man speaks to you, he already knows whether or not he wants you to be the type of girl that he will take on multiple dates outside and in public. Or you're the type of girl that he will forever see indoors. When a man speaks to you, he already knows whether or not he wants you to be the type of girl that he will take on multiple dates outside and in public, or you're the type of girl that he will forever see indoors. My question to my sister is, are you currently waiting on someone who has left you as a placeholder? Or are you being told that you are loved without having been told that you are liked? My question to you, my sister, is are you currently waiting on someone who has left you as a placeholder? Or are you being told that you are loved without having been told that you are liked?