most hypersexual ppl want to be loved at a depth the world cannot provide them...

most hypersexual ppl want to be loved at a depth the world cannot provide them... Hey, can we have a little bit of grace for my hypersexual folks? For those of you who are, I hope you have a little bit of more patience with yourself on your journey of self-discovery and understanding and understand that you're not going to shame yourself into perfection. You're not going to shame yourself out of your past, you're not going to shame yourself into healing, you're not going to shame yourself into who you want to be. That only comes through accepting where you've been and accepting who you are and genuinely committing to who you want to become. None of that has anything to do with sexual shame, other than allowing yourself to see where it is constricting you from self-expression and self-acceptance. More importantly, for people who aren't hypersexual or purity culture paraders, I like you guys to understand in this very individualistic, very selfish, really narcissistic society that we live in if you're a Westerner, I hope you realize that for a lot of people, engaging in intimacy, that's the only time they're positively validated and they're told that they are loved by somebody that they genuinely care about beyond their blood family. Now start incorporating people who have toxic family dynamic, dysfunctional homes, incorporate people who've gone through severe trauma, relationship trauma, incorporate people who don't have healthy coping mechanisms or are around people with very toxic vices, but those are people they love and care about, they just struggle to decipher what influence to take from said people they care about. This is why I hate you purity culture people because at the end of the day the roundabout always comes back to you don't want people to enjoy sex, you don't want people to have any understanding of it, you want people to feel like it's some demonic activity that is only influenced by the devil and the reason why they're traumatized due to it is because they're stupid and they engaged in devil worship magic or XYZ, which is again just justification as to why this person doesn't need healing, care, love, and appreciation beyond their experiences. As if we aren't all fucking human beings. But I hope you guys really understand and start taking that to light, bro, and realize, especially you people that are like, I need a freak, I need a freak, I need a freak. Get to a point of understanding to where this person is genuinely engaging like this because that's who they are and that's how they care to express themselves and appreciate them as such. Because I'm telling you right now, it's very sad, but a lot of you guys only have people who are very kinky and freaky simply because they're performing so much to get your validation or this is the means they've found of coping going through trauma that has been unresolved and nobody has genuinely taken the time to care about with them to heal through. So your little freak might find her way back to the church by accident. Just another form of cope and escapism, but more socially acceptable.