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Comment COMEBACK and I’ll show you how the addiction breaks. You keep asking why you still miss them after everything they did. I studied over 8,000 relationships like yours while helping them all break out and heal. Here’s the answer, from their side of the hessboard. If I were a narcissist building a lifetime addict, I’d do these 6 things: 1️⃣I’d become your dream person in the first 30 days. Mirror everything you love, text you constantly, call you my soulmate by week three, You’d get hooked on a person who never existed. 2️⃣Then I’d go cold with no warning. Sweet, then cruel, then sweet again, on no schedule you could predict. That’s a slot machine, and slot machines build the strongest addiction known to science. 3️⃣I’d chip away at your worth so slowly you’d never notice, until my approval was the only thing that made the ache stop. First I become the pain. Then I become the painkiller. 4️⃣I’d peel your people away one by one, a comment here, a fight there, until I was your only source of comfort. A dealer never wants you to have another supply. 5️⃣I’d give you crumbs of the beginning. One perfect night, one text like the old days, just often enough to keep you chasing the person from day 30. THIS is why you still miss me. You’re not missing what we were. You’re craving a high I designed. 6️⃣And if you ever really left, l’d send the message I know your brain can’t ignore. The apology. The “I’ve changed.” The crisis only you can fix. Not because I miss you. Because the lever still works. Now the part they never wanted you to know: none of this worked because you’re weak. It worked because you’re human, and every human brain hooks the same way. It’s an addiction. And addictions BREAK. I break them for a living, I broke my own after 18 years, and it’s exactly what we do inside The Comeback. Message me COMEBACK and I’ll send you the door. #Love #narcissism #narcissist #viral #relationships