Do not answer these questions

Do not answer these questions. You could be kind, babe, but you cannot be no dummy. Let me tell y'all a list of questions that if people ask you, do not give them the answer to these things. I promise you, just listen. Most of the time when they're people trying to inflict harm on you or try to like set you up or try to just have ill intent with you, you have to know to avoid certain types of conversations and questions and how to pivot. So, for example, I was even the gym today and I'm not saying that this man was intentionally trying to put forth harm to me or anything, but there's certain types of questions that for a stranger to ask are just not regular for me. And I'm like, why would you ask that? That's weird. So he asked me, he was like, do you go to this gym often? That too, a regular person, guard down, whatever, could be very disliked. Whatever. To me, I realized certain types of people ask questions like that to see what your schedule is, to see how or what times of day you visit this place and if it's some place specifically that you visit often. You never want to tell the person that. You never want to tell them, yeah, I usually come around this time, whatever, like you're giving them way too much information. So me, I was like, no, I'm just going to different spots and just testing places out. He was like, do you live in the area? Why are you asking that, sir? For what? And I was like, nope. He was like, well, what area do you live in? Why are you asking that? Those types of questions, do not ever, ever, ever answer those questions for anybody. I don't care if it's a woman or a man asking you those things. I don't answer those questions for nobody if I don't know them like that, specifically. And it doesn't mean that you got to be nasty to anybody, but it just means that like you don't give out details to where somebody knows your schedule, to where somebody knows places that you frequent often, to where they are trying to like stalker before too, and I think that's where it comes from. And also comes from like, my house was vandalized before too and robbed and like, little things like that to me are big because people that are trying to set you up or follow you home or whatever they're intending to do, I wasn't about to try to let it happen either or open up that door to even allow that type of thing. But yeah, just be smart, ladies. Know what things to answer, what things to pivot from and curve and what not to answer as well. Or just lie. So that person, nope, this is my first time at this gym and will be to last. Like, whatever you feel. All right, see ya.