"when does it get easier?"

@nickjaywood

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Why it worked

The creator offers a profound and counter-intuitive perspective on struggle, reframing it as a necessary catalyst for personal growth. This resonates with viewers facing challenges, providing a sense of validation and motivation.

Summary

The creator shares a message from someone struggling with a difficult two-week period and asks when things get easier. The creator honestly replies that it doesn't get easier, but that the struggle is what shapes you into a better person.

Structure

1Receiving a message about struggle
2The question of when it gets easier
3The honest answer: it doesn't
4The point is the growth through struggle
5The value of the person one becomes

On-screen text

"when does it get easier?" it doesn't. believe this to my core.

Transcript

So I get this message today from this. It's been out for like one transfer. And he's like, I'm struggling the the repetition. It's it's like been the hardest two weeks of my life. He said, or asked, when does it get easier? I said, do you want me to be honest? I said, it doesn't get easier. Doesn't. But that's the point. I said you shouldn't want it to because the man that you're going to become through this experience is going to be worth every single bit of struggle that you're going to go through times a thousand. And I genuinely mean that. What would you say?

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the advice nobody wants to hear looking back, i wouldn’t trade the hardest years of my life for anything i hated them while i was living them now i can’t imagine who i’d be without them what would you tell him?