AITAH for not sleeping with my wife after she accused me of forcefully having sex with her. Hi all, my wife accused me of forcing myself on her and it's making it really difficult to look at her anymore. For context, me and my wife have been married for 7 years and dated for 4 years prior. We've told each other everything there is to be told, she knows that I was molested as a child by my older brother, and I know she went though something similar.

AITAH for not sleeping with my wife after she accused me of forcefully having sex with her. Hi all, my wife accused me of forcing myself on her and it's making it really difficult to look at her anymore. For context, me and my wife have been married for 7 years and dated for 4 years prior. We've told each other everything there is to be told, she knows that I was molested as a child by my older brother, and I know she went though something similar. When we first started dating, she told me her ex used to rape her and that really pissed me off, so much so that I found his work through his Facebook, found what time he got to work (literally by ringing them and asking), and even found what bus he took to and from work, I really was ready to go prison over this. Thankfully a chance call from my wife stopped me from doing something I would now regret. Now with that out the way, you can understand my feelings going forward. Last week while me and my wife where cuddled up post "alone time" she says to me "you know? Technically you raped me." Naturally I was both shocked and confused by this statement (especially seen as she was the one to initiate and drag me on top of her) so I asked her what she meant, and she told me "well I didn't actually want sex, I only did that because I knew you wanted it." This one sentence has me questioning our whole relationship, how many times has she done something like this in the past where she felt pressured into having sex without me even realising it? Was she confusing sexual frustration with work frustration? Was I not being kind enough to her for her to think this way? Was this what she ment when she said her ex forced himself on her? Hmm. Now go follow @pouchers_io on all social media platforms and don't forget to download the pouches app today and sign up using the WHOTPODCAST referral code.