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hello hello it's Caleb Hammer i'm with your post show her Parker because we're keeping her anonymous how are you I'm fine so I know you right now um yes and your husband and your husband said some uh sideways comments little little little uh drive bys in the house about how it feels like your daughter is kind guys what do you think I that's might sees things well she said in response why I know here for like five years year I if she her dad with her dad I just sorry to know your about her living there at 34 um we asked back home in a financial situation that she handle how long would you be living there we want her life on track and along with her wife I agree and we don't force forever I agree and and you know plan my fear is doesn't put effort into ever moving you guys like cause right now a couple jobs just spending all her car payment and eating out like draining her savings it's very scary the windfall she house I'm scared and it be until it's like oh is no longer we're no longer helping we're enabling I understand how she's draining her savings she moved some yield savings account but because of her large amount of checking account she is moving some of the checking account as uh for example I don't understand how she's working she does pay not pay what going rent is she doesn't have to provide most of her groceries she chooses to provide yeah yeah uh she spent last month $500 going out to and then on just like extra getting like an energy drink $200 so last month she made in uh I believe payroll $2,600 but her spending 3,386 so the savings just starts to drain with that and then needs to look spending and get that figured so we figured that part out my question is how long will that be tolerated we're no longer helping we're enabling well again she's 34 she when she sold we asked her her car huh with the got from her plenty to do at the time this yes she told me and they told me not to cause I'll personal loans and my credit cards oh she's saying and her credit instead cause the higher okay maybe that makes sense her mom but she doesn't talk to us so we have no clue what is going on yeah your mom keeping a roof over your head situation talk about things they're helping you I know okay I appreciate thank you no no problem thank you hmm what do you um there's no urgency mom has no and I fear dad have no you're gonna have no you are don't have urgency oh my goodness just saw this a note on fucking oh what is it note to self you gotta do this is for you this isn't live for you you never lose sight of that for yourself once in your life hmm hmm anything