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ARE YOU NOTICING THAT ONE OF YOUR SIBLINGS IS BECOMING MORE ATTACHED TO YOUR PARENTS? AND BY ATTACHED, I MEAN THEY'RE ALWAYS ALONE WITH THEM, ALWAYS TRYING TO HELP, MAYBE BECOMING MORE FAVORITED, LIKE THE GOLDEN CHILD. YOU NEED TO WATCH THIS BEFORE YOU HAVE SOME FINANCIAL HARM DONE TO YOU. IN AGING PARENTS, THERE'S ALWAYS ONE OF THE CHILDREN WHO STARTS TO RECOGNIZE THAT THERE MAY BE SOME ADVANTAGES TO BECOMING MORE ATTACHED TO THE PARENTS. IS THEY'LL GET EASILY INGRAINED WITH THEM. MAYBE THEY LIVE CLOSER, MAYBE THEY SPEND MORE TIME WITH THEM, WILL TO CUT YOU OUT OR TO CUT OTHER SIBLINGS OUT. THERE'S ALWAYS ONE SPECIFIC MOVE THEY MAKE FIRST, AND ALMOST EVERYBODY IN THE FAMILY MISSES IT. AND THAT'S WHAT WE'LL. HERE'S HOW THE PATTERN GOES. ONE OF THE CHILDREN STARTS TO BECOME MORE, MORE ATTACHED TO THO- THAT AGING PARENT OR AGING PARENTS. MORE VISITS. THEN THEY'LL START CONTROLLING ACCESS. THEY'LL START SUGGESTING THAT THE OTHER SIBLINGS AREN'T AS CLOSE. THEY'LL START DISCOURAGING THE PARENTS FROM BEING AS CLOSE TO THE OTHER CHILDREN OR SIBLINGS FROM COMING TO SEE THE PARENTS. THEY'LL START SAYING, "I'LL HANDLE THE PAPERWORK. I'LL HANDLE THIS ISSUE." AND WHAT THEY'RE DOING IS STARTING TO SIDLE IN TO BECOME DE FACTO CONTROLLERS OF THOSE PARENTS. THE OTHER SIBLINGS START HEARING FROM THE PARENTS LESS. THEY GET SCREENED. THEY-- IT'S HARDER TO GET VISITS. THE PARENTS MAY VISIT YOU LESS. THERE'LL BE A CHANGE IN WHO HAS ACCESS TO BANK ACCOUNTS, INSURANCE ACCOUNTS, OR EVEN THE ATTORNEY. NEW DOCUMENTS WILL START TO APPEAR. A POWER OF ATTORNEY, A BENEFICIARY CHANGE, A WILL. AND SOMETIMES THEY'LL GIVE AN EXCUSE OF, "THIS WILL IS SIMPLER. IT'S EASIER." EXCUSE WHY IT'S IN A FAMILY WHERE THE GOLDEN CHILD MAKES MONEY OVER FAMILY CONNECTION IS THE RED FLAG. AND THEY'LL GRADUALLY DO THAT OVER THE COURSE OF MONTHS OR YEARS, ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY KNOW THAT ONE OF THE AGING PARENTS IS STARTING TO BECOME SICK. MAYBE THEIR HEALTH IS DETERIORATING, MAYBE THEY'RE GOING INTO MANAGED CARE. SO WE SEE THIS MANY TIMES AS PRIVATE INVESTIGATORS. OUR AGENCY HANDLES CASES LIKE THIS ALL THE TIME. WE SEE IT USUALLY AFTER THE FACT, BUT WE CAN REWIND THE CLOCK AND SHOW YOU WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE IN THE MEANTIME FROM THE INSIDE TO GIVE YOU THE RED FLAGS TO KEEP IT FROM HAPPENING. SO IF YOU'RE SEEING THESE SIGNS WE'LL TALK ABOUT, YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND WHO ELSE IS ALREADY IN A POSITION TO TAKE EVERYTHING.