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I talked about dating and I shared with you guys the worst dating mistake you can make as an ambitious woman. Today let's talk about friendships and I'll share with you guys the worst mistake you can make when picking friends as an ambitious person. You know all those friends that secretly do not like you, but they still hang around because of the benefits that comes with being your friend. Exactly. Please run away from them. Ambitious women, we, we do too much. Especially if you're born and you're an ambitious person, you do too much. And I say you do too much in the sense that you like to everybody along. You like to want person. If it's happening for you, you want it to happen for this other person. That's kind of person I am. If you are not careful, you're always going to constantly attract people that only want to use you for that comes with you but do not actually like you. And the thing with people is that they are so stealth, you would never notice one day like you wouldn't be able to clock them because they are very. They are nice, but they are not also nice at the same time. So you always think that "is this thing, is this in my head?" But then you're like, "I really don't get it." So in order for you to clock these people and attract these people, you need to learn the art of discernment, and you also need to learn the f*** up and just look. I started this mantra recently and I was telling one of my friends and I'm gonna do a video about it. The art of observing. I just observe people. I do not put any labels, nor do I, um, expect anything from people. I observe and let you do your thing. For instance, every time I come to you and I tell you about my wins, you find a way to brush it up, brush it off, or you find a way to find another topic about it. That, you don't like my wins. Okay, I don't wanna be a part of this situation. Then you can move. As ambitious women, as an ambitious girl, you need to let things be. Leave it alone. Yeah, we do too much. I think that's the issue is that you do too much. And I should also learn to demote people. So for instance, if you've noticed that this is how this is, and this is how it is, instant demotion. Don't take things too seriously. I have to do another, another video about it. But yeah, learn the art of discernment. Learn the art of observation. If you can learn that, oh my God, your life is going to be so much better, and you stop attracting these kind of people. They are don't know like you, and that is fine. You'll probably like, one or two friends, and that is okay. Really. Gonna be like acquaintances, and that, again, is fine. Yeah.