How to detach from literally anything and remember who the f*ck you are again

If I wanted to detach from literally anything, a person, a business, a friendship, a even old version of myself. This is what I would remind myself. Detachment isn't automatically suddenly convince myself that I don't care. Cause obviously I cared. I invest in there. I imagined a future there. I watered and invested in there. But that's exactly what I would have to understand. I was the one watering it. The relationship didn't create your ability to love, the business didn't create your ambition. Ambition, the opportunity didn't create your value. You brought those things there. Instead of obsessing over everything you're losing, start identifying everything you're taking with you. What did you learn? What won't you tolerate, right? What are you capable of creating now? Because once you realize you are the common denominator, detachment stops feeling like you're losing out on the only chance for something. You now are right to decide, truly decide where you want to pour into next.