DETACH.

You have to get to a point to where someone not texting you back doesn't ruin your whole day, where someone being distant doesn't send you into a spiral, where someone acting differently than they were yesterday doesn't make you question yourself, your worth and where you stand. Because the minute that you let someone else's behavior determine how you feel, you've handed them over control over something that they were never supposed to have in the first place. Your peace, your confidence, your sense of self and self worth, those were all yours. And nobody should ever be able to do anything that makes that waver, that makes you question that. You need to understand that not everything that someone else does is about you. People get distracted, they go through things, they have off days, off weeks, off seasons where they pull back. And the minute that you attach your worth based off of someone else's behavior, oh girl, you're going to be in for it. You have to let people be who they are without compromising who you are.